Beyond the Ballot Box: Continuing the Fight for Dignity and Justice
Taking Care of Ourselves and Each Other
Self-care is not an indulgence—it’s a necessity. We must prioritize mental, emotional, and physical wellness, so that we can stay strong and resilient. Here are a few ways to stay grounded and connected:
Stay Connected to Loved Ones and Allies: Reach out to people who understand and support you. Whether it’s a friend, a family member, or a support group, maintaining connections can provide emotional strength and comfort.
Set Boundaries with Media: Limit exposure to distressing news if you need to. Stay informed, but don’t let constant updates overwhelm you. Take breaks when necessary and come back to the news when you’re ready.
Seek Support Services: For those who need emotional support but prefer alternatives to traditional emergency services, reach out to LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC mental health resources. Many organizations provide crisis support, peer counseling, and community healing circles.
You can access our empowerment guide at https://liveinyourtruth.org/safetyguide for support services and safety tips.
Taking Action in Ways That Feel Right for You
Action can take many forms, and it’s essential to recognize that every act—no matter how small—makes a difference. Here are ways to turn your emotions into meaningful steps:
DO YOU!: Feel your feelings—love, cry, laugh! Give yourself grace and live your most authentic and best life.
Engage in Advocacy Where You Are: You don’t need to be in a position of power to make an impact. Share your voice on social media, support petitions, attend local community meetings, and amplify causes you believe in.
Educate and Organize with Those Around You: Radical allyship starts with the people closest to us. Educate friends, family, and peers about the issues affecting marginalized communities, and encourage them to join efforts for justice and equality.
Hold Elected Officials Accountable: Stay informed about policies and decisions impacting marginalized communities, and connect with local representatives. Send emails, make calls, and demand accountability. Remind them that they work for the people—all people.
Prioritize Mutual Aid and Community Resources: Mutual aid networks provide a lifeline in times of crisis. Look for mutual aid initiatives in your area, whether it’s helping distribute food, offering skills, or supporting emergency funds for those in need.
Staying Safe in Changing Environments
It’s natural to feel concerned about safety during times of heightened political and social tension. Here are some practical steps for staying secure:
Know Your Local Resources and Safe Spaces: Familiarize yourself with safe locations and supportive spaces in your area. This could be a community center, a friend’s home, or local support organizations.
Build an Emergency Contact Network: Identify people you can reach out to in emergencies. Share contact information and establish a plan with trusted friends or family members.
Carry Important Documents and Emergency Supplies: If you anticipate being in areas where protests or high tensions may occur, carry essentials, emergency contacts, and basic first-aid supplies. Know your rights and stay aware of your surroundings.
I cannot say this enough to my 2SLGBTQIA+ Family, you haven’t met all of the people who are going to love you yet! You absolutely belong! And remember to always live in your truth!
In love, joy, and solidarity,
Phillip Alexander Downie (he/him)
Email me at pad@mocopridecenter.org to say hello!
